Sunday, November 30, 2008

Standards & boundaries

Standards are rules for me
Boundaries are rules for others

Consequences are needed if we don't meet these

Anger is not wrong, as such, it's how we express that anger

We have to teach people how to treat us and this comes from our respect for ourselves. We need good self care.

Hosing is putting someone down; ignoring or dismissing their opinion and can include sarcasm - It kills creativity and openness!

In coaching we can be dismissive of other peoples complaints / pains when we don't consider them to be such a big deal ourselves.

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