- Victim mentality
- Don't want to change / unwilling to take responsibility
- Words and actions don't match up
On these occasions make sure your presence is focused on the client; a commitment to the client. Be mindful of your own, presence, reactions. Learn how to work through your own frustrations; pre-plan your responses. Suspend your judgement. If necessary, reiterate your role and expectations.
Not everyone is coachable:
- Excuse maker
- dishonest
- defensive
- stuck in the past
Always remember there is a coach for everybody - it just might not be you. We need a referral network; not only other coaches but counsellors, psychologists etc form partnerships
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